Mar 19, 2014
Everyone knows the moment or month or era when life happened, all at once, and established some set point of desire or values or best-ever happiness. Flash-flooded with detail, and then flash-frozen in time, it's usually a quick, early thing: an especiall…
Feb 6, 2014
Girls and women (it feels so corny to consider girls and women as these separate classes of experience, right?) have, more so than guys and to our great benefit, style and shopping as a means of expression and self-realization.
Jan 29, 2014
Falling asleep, I often find a convincing, semiconscious simulacrum of cozy peace by imagining a nonscientific, crayon-drawn version of a light field, and then focusing tighter and tighter on the black empty places in between the things.
Dec 30 2013
If there is a single idea that can be borrowed from its original physics, or whatever context, and reapplied as an explanation for the ways in which people are shitty to each other, it's that energy can't be created or destroyed, only changed.
Nov 11, 2013
Twitter, generally and probably temporarily, is uncomfortably easy. Like Sunday afternoons, like an unencumbered ego, anything at all can surge forward to fill the empty space, and everything will.
Aug 9, 2013
By now, to say that highbrow and lowbrow—or high culture and low culture—form a false dichotomy is pretty, you know, obvs. Maybe we've felt it to be true for a while, that the idea of high and low as discrete and opposed units of whatever—of product or co…
May 3, 2013
Friendship is a constantly self-renewing frontier of human relationships, a Wild West of emotional and temporal adventure times. The stuff of great friendships applies to kindergarteners sharing a snack as much as it does to Carl Reiner and Mel Brooks wat…
Apr 9, 2013
Fun fact: when you don't know what you're talking about, you're probably talking about class. I'd say half of what seems to be racist and sexist and xenophobic is classist and allowed to be because nobody gets into it, and nobody wants to. Classism in act…
Mar 13, 2013
I have two recurring dreams. One is none of your business until I make it your business and the other you're going to hear about even if you don't want to: It's about a familiar-since-forever kind of weekend beach party cum bacchanal, a performance of cha…
Mar 5, 2013
The 90s were perfect. This isn't to privilege one set of nostalgics over another; the 1990s reverence felt by three small, semidiscrete generations (X, Y, Millennial) is, of course, no different from anyone else's nostalgia for what came before, but serio…
Jan 28, 2013
Anything that is commonly understood as the province of teenage girls or their proxies is understood to be something dumb. A "selfie" is understood to be dumb, and it really is, but it's also the ordering feature of the internet.
Dec 28, 2012
Couldn't the consistently shitty foundation of almost everything we are and live with be some kind of necessary substructure of checks and balances? Like, a carefully evolutionary-ed trias politica, in the interest of maintaining a relatively stable level…