Do You Want to Have Sex with My Fake Leg?

All photos by the Outsiders.

Ever since I saw the sex scene in Hustler White with the gay amputee prostitute, I’ve always thought it would be an enriching experience to have sex with an amputee and be penetrated by the intact part of his/ her severed limb. Unfortunately the opportunity has yet to present itself, however, in my extensive exploration of amputee-devotee forums, I recently made friends with Paul. Paul is a 52-year-old amputee from northern England. He is missing the lower part of this right leg, and in recent years has discovered he enjoys dildoing his sexual partners with his stump. Recently, Paul and I sat down over Skype and girl-talked about stump play, watersports gangbangs, and other random funky avant-garde sex stuff.

VICE: How did you lose part of your leg?

Paul: It was amputated when I was nine years old due to a congenital bone defect. I was unable to walk normally even before the amputation.

Have you ever used your stump during sex?

Yes, with both women and men. The first time was with a man in his 50s, and I used my stump to masturbate his cock. It was strange to start with, but I quickly got into the swing of things. After a couple minutes of this, he ejaculated onto my stump, and then licked off the cum with his tongue. I ejaculated quickly after seeing this: it was such a turn on! I’ve also done similar to a woman’s pussy. She loved it. I’ve realized that my stump is an opportunity for enjoyable sexual fun, and therefore I’m happy to use it in any way I can to satisfy both my partners and myself.

That’s hot. Since you use a prosthetic leg in daily life, do the people you meet not initially realize you are disabled? When you are dating someone, how long do you wait to bring it up?

I do wear my prosthetic leg all day, but I sometimes take it off at home and use crutches or crawl about. (I also find crawling a turn on, and would love to be forced to crawl about naked by a sexual partner.) I have always told people in the past about my leg before I met them—if it was a blind date, or someone from the internet, etc… I’ve found that some people just don’t want to get into a deep relationship with a disabled person. I lost a few girlfriends due to the leg. They said even though I’m a nice guy, they didn’t want to have a physical relationship with someone with one leg. That knocked my confidence pretty badly.

Were you ever married?

No, but I came close once. It was in the early 70s, but the girl I was dating (and never had sex with) broke it off because she had more feelings for another women. They are still together today.

Are you dating anyone now?

No. Sadly I have not had sex in over three years, but even at my age I live in hope. There aren’t many people local to where I live that I could develop a friendship and/ or relationship with. “Normal” dating sites never seem to get me anywhere. I'm not sure if it’s me or what.

So you have more success on sites that are geared specifically for disabled people?
I have certainly had more online chats with people on disabled sites than on normal sites, and have met some in person, most of whom turned out to be guys. I’ve been on DisabledDating4u, AmputeeDate, Caffmos (a gay site) and some others. There are also sites specifically for amputee devotees, as you know.

What are most of the people on the amputee-devotee forums into? Have you had any weird requests from people?

Most people want me to use my stump to jerk them off, or to be penetrated. The weirdest was probably this guy who asked me to stand using my crutches, with my stump just hanging down, and then he would crawl over and suck the base of the stump, then lick it all the way up to my penis while his friend watched. That was kinky.

What is the most extreme sexual situation you’ve ever been in?

I haven’t really been in one… maybe the time that I was in a group of five men, and we all were jerking each other off and peeing on each other.

That sounds kind of extreme.

Yeah, it just sort of happened. We were all hanging out and watching a porn video, and then eventually we started either masturbating ourselves or each other. Then in the video, a guy started peeing on a girl and wow it was hot!. Then one of the guys suggested that we all pee on him. As you know, at that stage of horniness anything goes, so we all stood over him and began urinating. It was a wonderful feeling, I think he loved it!

How did you lose your virginity?

It was in my mid twenties, to someone I met on a dating site (a normal one). But it was a one-off with her. She didn’t say anything, but I had a feeling she wasn’t into my disability. I lost my male-to-male virginity in my 30s to a guy in his 50s. I’d been chatting to him on an amputee-devotee site. We did oral. I’m not too keen on having a cock in my ass, although toys or a strap-on would be nice to try.

Agreed. I like your glamour shots, by the way.

Thanks. They were taken by a photographer for The Outsiders, a group that was set up for disabled people to help with discrimination, especially on the sexual side. I loved posing nude and hope to again.

Do you have an ultimate sexual fantasy?

I would love to have a Master. I’ve never actually been a slave, but I live in hope that I will be one day. The idea of being someone’s slave, and of being punished if I don’t perform a task well, really turns me on. I have a very submissive nature. For example, before I retired I worked in marketing as a supervisor, and had staff working for me, but I did not like it, and was always happier being told what to do, both at work and in my private life. Even at 52 I have hope for a newfound, kinky sexual future!

Good luck Paul, thanks for talking to me!