Holy fucking guacamole! This installment of Hey Ron! addresses a man who thinks he’s discovered that the lady he’s engaged to has sex on film for money. Ron sets our buddy straight and manages to teach us a thing or two about the ways of the heart in the process.Hey Ron!
I was surfing through the internet the other night looking for some really good porn, and I stumbled across a video that I'm 99 percent certain features my fiancée, who I’ve been seeing for three years. I watched in disgust as she was defiled by two men on either side of her and almost threw my monitor across the room. She is on vacation right now, and I haven't said anything to her yet. What should I do? If it's her I need to know, but if it's not her she will be so offended she might break up with me (and she'll know that I look at porn!). Anyway, if it turns out to be her and she owns up to the fact, do you think there's any chance of working things out?First things first: You looking at porn means you’re not getting satisfied at home, and if she is doing porn she’s definitely not getting satisfied at home. Porn can be addicting to the point that you forget, you lose love, and you think more about lust. Sex should be more about lovemaking, not lustmaking.If it is her in the porno and you somehow manage to work this out, you better get a partner because you alone are not doing the job. You’re in a lose-lose situation. Find someone who only needs one man and make the best of your life.If it’s not her and you accuse her of it, then she’s going to be mad at you for watching porn and thinking that she’s not enough for you. And if she thinks that she’s not enough for you, and that this is what you do on the side, she’s not going to be happy with you anyway. Either way, you’re in a situation not too many guys want to be in. Personally, I’d cut my losses and try to find someone else because if it is her you lose and if it’s not her and she finds out you’re jacking off to porno, you lose. Unless she’s a freak. If she’s a freak, then you’re alright. And if she’s a closet freak, maybe this will bring it out in her. Then everyone’s happy.Love,
Ron
Ron
