I am afraid to speak for fear that I will hurt the feelings of those outside the black community who have been kind, people who have been actively engaged in creating a more just university and civic environment, those who participate in marches and protests to demonstrate their solidarity, and who have formed study groups to learn more about how they can bring about change. I don't want them to think their efforts are not appreciated. I am glad for them, but I am not satisfied. I will not be satisfied until everyone is awake. I am reminded here of the song by Harold Melvin and the Blue Notes, "Wake up Everybody":I stay because of the investment I have made in myself. I stay because I have a right to a higher education. I stay because I have a stake in the outcome.
And I am afraid to speak for fear of being called an angry black woman who is uppity and rude. My voice has been silenced so often, for so long, no one has to silence me anymore because I silence myself. But then I realized, I have a stake in the outcome of this movement too and I have a responsibility to speak out.I moved to Columbia, Missouri, in August 2012 to attend the doctoral program in English Literature—Creative Writing at the University of Missouri. Even though friends warned me that Columbia was more like the South than the Midwest, I still came because when I first visited the small town I saw an eclectic community with a strong presence of local artists. Living in New York City had become too hard and too expensive.The people I met here on that first visit were friendly and engaging. I remember an animated conversation with a local artist about book-making, something that I love. The cost of living—rent, food, even my medical prescriptions are less expensive here than in New York. There are very practical reasons for coming here, and for staying. But I was caught off guard by the level of alienation and marginalization I would soon experience as a student. Often, it wasn't anything overt. It was more like benign neglect, an invisible wall—worse than the glass ceiling I witnessed during my 32 years at the Postal Service, 20 of them in supervisory and midlevel positions.Wake up everybody, no more sleepin' in bed
No more backward thinkin' time for thinkin' ahead
The world has changed so very much
From what it used to be so, there is so much hatred, war, an' poverty
Wake up all the teachers, time to teach a new way
Maybe then they'll listen to whatcha have to say
Cause they're the ones who's coming up and the world is in their hands
When you teach the children, teach 'em the very best you can.
As our appeals for a more inclusive university and for cultural diversity training were stymied, our voices have grown louder and more insistent. From my perspective, recent events led by Concerned Student 1950 grew out of this frustration. The name of the group symbolizes how long black students on the University of Missouri's campus have dealt with systemic discrimination. It would be impossible for me to draw a roster of names, and I do not want to because that makes these brave students a lightning rod for the backlash. I am a Concerned Black Student even if I am not an official member of Concerned Student 1950. They are my family, and I stand in solidarity with them and all black youth who are saying enough is enough. They are continuing a tradition of activism that has long been a part of the black experience in the United States.On VICE Sports: University of Missouri Football Players Broke the Power Structure
The disparity of administrators, faculty, and students of color at Mizzou is systemic. The absence of adequate training for administrators, faculty, and students on key concepts, particularly privileges and implicit biases is systemic. A discipline-specific curriculum that fails to acknowledge these privileges and biases is systemic. An institutional policy that encourages someone to report, to the authorities, speech they don't like is systemic. And friends, these systemic matters are those matters we ought to be principally pushing ourselves to reform.
Those who say in defense of disparity and discrimination, "If you don't like it leave," confound me. They say this, as if there is any place in this world where racism and xenophobia doesn't exist. They say this, as if black people did not play a significant part in building these United States from the beginning, through our physical labor and our intellect. Even my 32-year-old daughter asks me: Why do I stay in such a hostile place? I tell her I have a right to a quality education. I remind her of the overt and the covert murder of black men and women and children all over the United States. I tell her there is no safe place. At some point we have to make a stand.I'm grateful that I have found a circle of like-minded people who are interested in justice and inclusion. But I will not sugar-coat the current situation. The neglect, the erasure, the invisibility, the withholding of validation—intellectual, emotional and spiritual—is real, and it is starving all of us.Why do I stay? I stay because of the investment I have made in myself. I stay because I have a right to a higher education. I stay because I have a stake in the outcome. I am proud of Mizzou's black students and their allies (and there are many); I am proud of the members of the local community who have taken responsibility for creating a more just Missouri—who meet and study on their own, who fill City Hall chambers to change the laws and policies that govern us, who in places of worship pray for an end to injustice, and I am grateful for those who nurture our youth and buffer them as much as they can against harm. I am one of them. That is why I stay.Even in the midst of racial hatred and intolerance, I still believe in our future. I still believe that we can eradicate injustice, brutality, and oppression. I believe that we can, individually and collectively, realize our best humanity.Monica Hand is a poet and a graduate student at the University of Missouri. Follow her on Twitter.The world won't get no better if we just let it be
The world won't get no better we gotta change it yeah, just you and me.