polyamory
If You Wanna Be Poly, You Can't Be a Jealous Mess
'It's not monogamy, you don’t get to tell anybody who to love and how to love and how not to love.'
What Cheating Looks Like in a Polyamorous Relationship
"In non-monogamy, you can have your cake and eat it too—so why are you sneaking cake in the middle of the night?”
The Truth About Jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships
Yes, polyamorous people can feel jealousy—and cheat. Lola Phoenix shares how they navigate those emotions in their polyamorous relationships and gives advice if you're questioning whether polyamory is for you.
Sometimes It Sucks to Be Who We Are: Advice from So Sad Today
If you don't think you're going to be comfortable with a polyamorous relationship, you probably won't.
How I Made Consensual Non-Monogamy Work
My girlfriend was the one interested in the idea of being open; I was duly terrified at the prospect. I asked for a six-month freeze on the non-monogamy plan—which turned out to be exactly what I needed.
We Went to a Polyamory Event and Learned What a 'Polycule' Is
The organisers of Polyday think it's the biggest non-monogamy event in Europe, and tried to match that scale with a raft of talks and workshops.
I Went to a Sex Resort to Try and Learn to Be 'Monogamish'
Apparently, you can have an open relationship without being totally polyamorous.
I'm the 'Unicorn' in a Three-Person Relationship
For Nicole Everett, being in a throuple with married couple Cathy and Thomas helps her feel loved, secure, and fulfilled.
I Was a Jealous Partner Until I Went on a Swingers Vacation
If you told me a year ago that I'd watch my husband get a blowjob from a stranger and not feel jealous, I'd have laughed in your face.
The First Time: Mark-Che Devonish
RUDE Collective founder Mark-Che Devonish reminisces about the first time he introduced polyamory into his relationship and how it changed his outlook on everything from love to going to the movies.