Dating

10.11.19

Just Break Up With People, You Heartless Cowards!!!!

Don't "ghost" or "fizz" or whatever cute term we're currently using to describe avoiding a necessary human conversation.

10.5.19

Mirroring Is My Favorite Way to Tell if Someone Is Checking Me Out

Unconscious body language cues can be a sign that someone is interested in you—if you know what to look for.

10.3.19

My Hot Trans Girl Summer From Hell

After a life-shattering break up, I tried to find a new, stronger version of myself in sex. Instead, I got caught in a culture of male shame and discretion.

10.2.19

My Ex Deleted Me From His Instagram Because I Didn't Match His New Aesthetic

We’re still friends, but the rise of the ex-thetic means former partners everywhere are getting erased from the grid.

9.16.19

What to Do When Your First Date Flakes

When to call it quits with someone you've literally never met.

9.13.19

Speaking to the People Who Got Rejected from the Elite Dating App Raya

"It was supposed to be a glimpse into a world that is not my own, but the curtains were drawn on me."

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9.11.19

Are You Getting Any? How Training Horses Makes Me a Better Top

To find dates outside her two regular partners, this 28-year-old avoids Tinder and Bumble in favor of this old-school service.

9.10.19

The Problem with Right Wing Men On Dating Apps

There's been plenty of debate recently about left-wingers automatically rejecting right-wing men because of their politics. What hasn't really been mentioned is how unpleasant those men can be.

9.9.19

How to Tell Someone Is Flirting with You, According to Their Sign

Let's just say some signs are more subtle than others.

9.9.19

Facebook Dating Will Disrupt the Dating App Space (But Not For You)

Unless you have an Instagram crush you’ve been dying to talk to.

9.8.19

The Ins and Outs of Topping as a Trans Girl

I'm not into topping—but plenty of other trans women are. I asked some (and a few straight guys who bottom) what it's like for them.

9.4.19

From Seth Cohen to the Hot Priest: A Cultural History of the Softboi

From Willoughby in 'Sense and Sensibility', through Seth Cohen and Aziz Ansari in 'Master of None', the softboi has always been there – it's just that he only recently got his name.

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