I Did Sex Work to Make Money—and Find Real Intimacy With Men
One in eight trans women have done sex work as a source of income; one in five, for food or shelter. Some of us have looked for real human connection there, too.
Sessi Kuwabara Blanchard
I Stopped Trying to Make Sex a Performance and Started Loving Myself
I wonder what it would be like to just be natural, without pretending to be your “best,” “hottest” self to a partner.
The Anonymous Lives of Phone Sex Operators
Talking intimacy, secrecy and the tricks of the trade with the women whose voices have soundtracked thousands of orgasms.
Reddit Gave a Teenager With Autism a Shockingly Helpful Sex Ed Lesson
"All I knew was porn, and that didn’t help."
This Is Why People Cheat
Here’s where to start if you’re dealing with infidelity.
Australia's Most Brutal Sadomasochist Turns Pain Into Art
Meet Jilf, the performance artist who creates work out of blood, pain and trauma.
Future of Money
The Psychology Behind Our Inability to Talk About Money
What's stopping young Australians from opening up about cold hard cash?
What Being a Sex Worker Taught Me About Men
On top of intimacy, emotional labor, and ethical sex.
The Biggest-Ever Orgasm Study Tells Us More About How Women Come
The world needs this right now.
Women Reveal How They Broke Their Bad Dating Habits
A good deal of self reflection helps.
Real Lesbians Talk About the Fakery of Lesbian Porn
"Cut your bloody fingernails mate, otherwise it’s going to be really fucking painful."
[NSFW] Mythical Paintings of Our Most Intimate Moments
Elly Smallwood’s oil paintings explore the body, sexuality, and more.