How to Be a Great Third in a Threesome

A complete guide to finding your inner unicorn.


Yes, it Is Possible to Cheat in Poly Relationships

“I don’t need to know every detail, but if it’s big enough to lie about it, then it probably shouldn’t be happening.”


What Online Dating Is Like When You’re Poly

It's all good until someone spots you on Bumble and assumes you're cheating on your partner.


We Asked People in Poly Relationships What it’s Like to Raise Kids

How do you explain mum and dad’s new girlfriend?


We Asked Couples Why They Opened Up Their Relationship

From having a micropenis to living on different continents, non-monogamous couples answer the questions friends are too afraid to ask.


What It’s Like to Tell Your Friends and Family You’re Polyamorous

“It was basically like I'd said: ‘Mom, I have to tell you something. I eat chairs.’”


Why We Need to Challenge the Culture of Monogamy

Relationship norms are so pervasive that they've led to flawed science.


Polyamorous People Tell Us How They Make Their Relationships Work

If you want to bang other people while you're already in a relationship, there might be a few rules to follow.


​What We Learned About Sex in 2014

Technology is changing the way we have sex, "rosebudding" is a thing, the British government can't handle face-sitting, and everybody likes butts.


How to Have a Non-Monogamous Relationship

The seminal book on non-monogamy, The Ethical Slut, was published in 1997—but that shit is hard to read. So we made this easily digestible A-to-Z guide to understanding non-monogamy instead.