sex and relationships
Bisexual Women Explain Why They Hate Being 'Unicorn Hunted' for Threesomes
As non-monogamous dating and polyamory have become more popular, the practice of couples using dating apps to deceive women into being their mythical "third" is on the rise.
A Handy Guide to Navigating the Endless Rules of Polyamory
Or; why dating someone who already has a partner might be a bad idea.
My Boner-Pill Habit Became a Dependence on Nasal Spray
Allow me to explain.
If You Wanna Be Poly, You Can't Be a Jealous Mess
'It's not monogamy, you don’t get to tell anybody who to love and how to love and how not to love.'
What Cheating Looks Like in a Polyamorous Relationship
"In non-monogamy, you can have your cake and eat it too—so why are you sneaking cake in the middle of the night?”
The Truth About Jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships
Yes, polyamorous people can feel jealousy—and cheat. Lola Phoenix shares how they navigate those emotions in their polyamorous relationships and gives advice if you're questioning whether polyamory is for you.
How I Made Consensual Non-Monogamy Work
My girlfriend was the one interested in the idea of being open; I was duly terrified at the prospect. I asked for a six-month freeze on the non-monogamy plan—which turned out to be exactly what I needed.
We Went to a Polyamory Event and Learned What a 'Polycule' Is
The organisers of Polyday think it's the biggest non-monogamy event in Europe, and tried to match that scale with a raft of talks and workshops.
I Was a Jealous Partner Until I Went on a Swingers Vacation
If you told me a year ago that I'd watch my husband get a blowjob from a stranger and not feel jealous, I'd have laughed in your face.
How to Be a Great Third in a Threesome
A complete guide to finding your inner unicorn.
What We Can All Learn from Polyamorous Relationships
"Many Love," Sophie Lucido Johnson's new memoir chronicling her years of polyamorous partnerships, is actually a lesson on what it means to be committed.
Yes, it Is Possible to Cheat in Poly Relationships
“I don’t need to know every detail, but if it’s big enough to lie about it, then it probably shouldn’t be happening.”