"In making my own series of photos addressing masculinity, I got frustrated because I wanted to say everything about masculinity all at once. Eventually, I made the sharp observation that I’m one single person and my voice could only tell my story." - Iris Ray
"A big part of my work is about the idea that masculinity and femininity do not have to oppose each other but rather can co-exist in each of us, and that there is beauty in gender presentations that fall outside of the binary. It’s also important for me to show masculinity away from what is assigned to us at birth but rather as something that we can choose, and have fun with. Masculinity can be pink and shiny and tough and soft all at once." - Laurence Philomene
Iris Ray: I was born and raised in the Bible Belt, and the idea of the patriarchy is a huge part of the foundation of that culture. Fortunately I grew up in a house that was way less dogmatic, but it was all around me. “Men are the leaders, women are the encouragers.” And ironically, even though men were supposed to be symbols of fortitude and leadership, any lack of self-control was chalked up to the fact that “boys will be boys.” They just can’t help themselves. Even as a kid, I thought it was bullshit.
The seed for the show began years ago while I was still in college and I started to explore how we perform gender more in my photos. But I got to a point where I just realized that the conversation I wanted to have about masculinity was so much bigger than my own experiences. So I shifted my focus from only saying what I had to say to curating Boys Will Be Boys. Honestly I’m so thankful for everyone who contributed—it’s become such a rich range of voices! My own work influenced the direction of the show, but it wouldn’t be anything at all without the other artists.
“I believe as someone who is bisexual and as someone who is disabled, I have already been put away from the social masculine archetype that usually is either a straight athletic male or a gay 'masc' guy. Whether through my photography or paintings, I tend to exaggerate gender stereotypes to a humor degree or use colors to challenge masculinity.” - Barry Lee
I hope it encourages people to look more critically at how we socialize ourselves into narrow gender roles. There are plenty of mouthpieces who insist the heteronormative distinctions between men and women are biological and not learned, but when I see all of our work in the show, it’s like, no way. Masculinity can be fluid, vulnerable, poised, submissive. Whatever! And maybe we should reconsider what we’ve internalized as normal.
I think that amplifying the visibility of queer, trans, and gender non-conforming people is critical to challenging toxic masculinity. We are demanding to be seen, especially when the government is actively working to erase an entire group of people. I hope the show puts the question of masculinity at the front of our minds. What if we taught more boys to be emotionally literate instead of keeping a stiff upper lip? What if we taught them to be tender, not just competitive? Wouldn’t there be more empathy?I think the people who refuse to acknowledge folks living outside the gender binary feel like their way of life is threatened. I hope the more these stories are told, that will change. Visibility isn’t the entire solution for sure! We have to be investing in and protecting the marginalized folks who need it most right now however we can. But visibility makes it hard as fuck to be silenced.
L: "A lot of my works deals with the way we portray black men in society and in media. I attempt to question and redefine masculinity in my work by continuing to photograph men in accurate and true settings. Allowing the men to be seen for who they really are and not what media portrays them to be." - Brandon Stanciell R: "In my portraiture work I am presenting the many ways in which we can stand out from one other. It's highly important to me that these photographs take part in undoing the media's portrayal of what boys should or shouldn't be." - Brian Vu
Because men commit suicide more than three times as often as women. Because most mass killings are committed by men, and are usually motivated by a fatal sense of entitlement. Because Jordan Peterson teaches men that it’s women’s responsibility to pair with them to make them less violent. Because Donald Trump is president. Because of incels. The harmful impact of unchecked masculinity is so pervasive, we desperately need sweeping change. In the post #MeToo social climate, I think that we’re collectively more ready for the kind of reflection we need to make a real shift.
It’s hard not to feel like every time we take a step forward, we take two back. However, this show has made me feel really optimistic that the future I want to see is close ahead. Truthfully, I’m guilty of living in my own little echo chamber sometimes, so I have to stay aware of everything going on outside of myself. But even if the dominant narrative about masculinity still has a long way to go, this is where change starts. Grassroots shit! I think young people and queer people are pushing the ways we think about gender, masculinity, and femininity harder than ever right now. At least, that’s what I see happening around me.
"It’s my crucial responsibility and accountability to myself/identify, to do the labor to vacate my privilege, to unlearn the copious ways of toxic masculinity, and reconstruct my relationship to the perception of gender and oppression. My work attempts to build a visual history, narrative, and further research my own self actualization." - Jules Tatham
Besides myself, the artists are Richard Arthur, Barry Lee, Myles Loftin, Savana Ogburn, Laurence Philomene, Brandon Stanciell, Jules Tatham, and Brian Vu.When you see their work, it’s super obvious why I would want to have them in the show! Everyone illustrated a different perspective that’s uniquely them, and the work is beautiful. It was important to me to have artists that would really stick the landing with their commentary on masculinity. Everyone that I brought on board, I’d already seen that they were totally capable. It’s been amazing to just trust them completely.What kind of photographs can we expect to see in this show?
As you can probably tell, all the photos are of male-identifying or masculine-presenting people. They range from cheeky and playful to more contemplative. Like I was saying earlier, the range of unique voices we have is probably my favorite thing about our lineup. I think when you see everything together, you’ll know that we put a lot of care and personality in every piece.
"Because I photograph so many drag performers and fellow gender nonconforming people, I think that that inherently gives my work the power to subvert or question masculinity (and femininity, really) in a lot of different ways. It's important to me that I represent people that exist outside of the binary system- whether the subject is trans or nonbinary person or a drag performer. Subverting masculinity comes with the territory- it's vital to me to play with my own perception of gender and turn it on its head because of how toxic these notions of gender can be." - Savana Ogburn
Hosting the exhibit at Junior High was always part of the vision, but for a minute, I did question if it made the most sense. Celebrating the unique visions of masculinity in the show is huge, but I also hope we reach people (read: men) outside of that echo chamber and hopefully open some minds. I wondered if the feminine aesthetic of Junior High would be an obstacle. But then I was like, fuck that! Catering to men’s fragile sense of self is exactly what this show is here to rail against. I wanted this show to be challenging, and if discussing masculinity in a hyper-feminine space feels strange, then good! Let’s move past that shit. The space for the show is a strong reminder that these conversations aren’t just for men, it’s not exclusively locker room talk.Did anything surprise you about doing this show?
Actually, yes, big time! I realized that I had a lot of preconceptions about masculinity that were pretty narrow-minded. Like, I was my target audience in a way. Doing the show helped me get past my learned suspicion of men. A little skepticism is healthy, but instead of only seeing masculinity in the context of how it has hurt or oppressed me, this show has taught me that it really can look so much different from what I’ve experienced.
L: “I try to expand the definitions of masculinity in my work by looking for and presenting stories that are often times underrepresented. I draw from my own experience and present my version of what masculinity is and can be.” - Myles Loftin R: © Richard Arthur
I hope everyone who comes to see the show, or even reads about it here, sees what they need to see to help them level up a little bit. Open their minds, motivate them to support gender non-conforming artists, learn something about themselves. Whatever it is, I just want it to impact people positively. Above everything else, the show is a celebration. As much as I want it to challenge viewers, I want them to soak in all the beauty of what we’ve made and really just enjoy themselves!Sign up for our newsletter to get the best of VICE delivered to your inbox daily.Follow Sara Radin on Instagram.