Mark Hay

relationships

We're Both Blind. This Is How It Affects Our Sex Life

"We’ve had some friends who’ve asked us, 'If you can’t see, how do you find each other attractive?'"
Mark Hay
4.29.20
relationships

I Have Cystic Fibrosis. This Is How I Have Sex

"I’ve had sex while using oxygen before. You have to learn how to work with it, because it’s easy to get tangled in the tubing."
Mark Hay
4.16.20
relationships

I Lost Half My Penis to Cancer. This Is How I Have Sex

"The first thing I noticed was the absolute lack of sensation."
Mark Hay
2.26.20
relationships

I Have a Bag Instead of a Rectum. This Is How It Affects My Sex Life

"You can’t just wake up, roll over, and go at it."
Mark Hay
2.12.20
relationships

I'm Going Through Treatment for Cancer. This Is How I Still Have Sex

"I was first reading about penile injections being like, 'yeah, I don’t think so.' But on the other side of surgery, when reality came in, it was like, 'yeah, let’s maybe give that a shot.'"
Mark Hay
1.29.20
relationships

I Have Cerebral Palsy. This Is How I Have Sex

"I found out early that I’m not always good at using my fingers, but I am good at using my tongue. So why not focus on that and try to get good?"
Mark Hay
1.8.20
relationships

We're in Our 70s. This Is What Our Sex Life Is Like

"My sex life is better than at any other time, even during the 'free love' era of the 60s and 70s."
Mark Hay
12.18.19
Dating

My Sibling Molested Me. This Is How It Affects My Sex Life

"I was most traumatized as a child when I was asleep. Early on, I told Dave not to wake me up to be intimate, ever. That was a clear line, and he has respected it 100 percent."
Mark Hay
12.10.19
Sex

I'm HIV-Positive. My Partner Is Negative. This Is How We Have Sex

"One thing that really has been intimate about our respective statuses is that, versus a lot of other relationships, we’re more actively involved with each other’s holistic health."
Mark Hay
12.2.19
Sex

My Mother Had My Clitoris Cut. This Is How It Affects My Sex Life

"The hardest part of coming to terms with female genital mutilation for me is that it didn’t prevent the one thing my parents thought it would."
Mark Hay
11.19.19
Sex

I Was Paralyzed In a Car Accident. This Is How I Have Sex.

Three years ago, Laura and Jacob Beck were in a terrible car crash and a tree came down on Laura's head. The Becks told us how they've navigated sex and intimacy, from rehab to today.
Mark Hay
11.12.19
sex-lifestyle

Why Tiny Dicks Might Come Back Into Fashion

The “ideal penis size” has grown and shrunk throughout history.
Mark Hay
8.14.19
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