A Guide For Straight Women at Gay Bars, by a Queer Woman
Don’t let Rita Ora’s “Girls” fool you, drunkenly kissing girls “only for a night” is not a good look in 2018.
Philly Fans Watched Super Bowl in Minnesota Gay Bar Because It's Called 'Eagle'
"Yeah, that has to be a place where I can find some Eagles fans."
When Toxic Masculinity Infects Our Queer Spaces, We All Lose
I made a meme about how annoying "masc" gay parties are. But the response it got said more about the gay community than my joke ever could.
How Abandoned Queer Kids Find the Strength to Love Their Families
I've heard enough stories of rejected queer children to last a lifetime. No two are alike, and none are as cut and dry as you'd think.
I Found Out I Was HIV Positive at a Gay Bar
What it's like to emerge from a life-changing moment into the arms of strangers.
Cruising in Public Is Something It Could Never Be Online: Human
In praise of the old-fashioned joys of the flesh.
From the Door of a Gay Bar, You See the Scope of Life—and Death
I see a lot working the door at gay bars in Los Angeles. Twice, patrons taught me what it really means to have a community.
Gay Bars Can be Mind-Bogglingly Racist
We decided to take a look at how unsafe "safe spaces" have been in the last 12 months.
Can Gay Dating Apps Replace Gay Bars? Opinions Vary
Gay and genderfluid people from around the world sound off on the good and bad of the rise of gay dating apps.
What Comes After the Death of the Lesbian Bar?
As America's last holdouts of queer female nightlife fall, a new, genderless alternative is taking root.
The Battle to Save San Francisco's Queer Spaces from Gentrification
The Stud has stood for a half decade as one of San Francisco's most subversive queer bars; the unconventional means proposed to save it are the last resort of a nightlife community forced to the city's edges.
How I Told My Husband and Boyfriend I'm Dating Another Man
I already had a husband, a boyfriend, and all the guys I could fuck. I had enough guys. Then there was Conor.