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sex-how-to

This Is What It's Like to Have Sex With Hearing Loss

Embracing my hearing limitations has come, somewhat counterintuitively, from eroticizing them.
Anna Pulley
6.14.19
Sex

Dominatrixes Tell Us What Makes a Good Sub

Ease in slowly, ask questions, and don’t mistake your domme for a therapist.
Graham Isador
4.24.19
Sex

Why I Decided to Start Kink Shaming Myself

I've invited abuse into my sex life for too long.
James Greig
3.22.19
SEX

When It Comes to 'Vanilla Sex,' No Two People Taste the Same Flavor

Our societal understanding of what we mean when we say a sex act is “vanilla” isn’t as obvious as we might think.
Anna Iovine
2.14.19
kink

Doms and Subs Tell Us About the Tricky Ways They Express Love

Because sometimes saying “I love you” ruins the roleplay.
Laura Bell
2.14.19
Sex

What It’s Like Being in a Sex Club in Canada’s North

Welcome to Yellowknife, where everyone knows your kink.
Jessica Davey-Quantick
1.22.19
bdsm

The Vancouver Couple Bringing Japanese Bondage to Art Classes

This kinbaku dojo teaches rope tying, hosts life drawing nights, and sparks conversation around consent.
Michelle Gamage
1.16.19
Fetish

What a Cast Fetish Is All About

Think toes, bondage, and helping people in casts do their household chores.
Richard Greenhill
10.11.18
Sex

How Kink Made These People’s Sex Lives Healthier

From relieving stress to consent education, getting kinky has a lot of benefits.
Laura Bell
10.9.18
My First Time

The First Time I Was Paid for Sex

"I was motivated by a nagging curiosity, a voice in my head I couldn't tune out."
Kaytlin Bailey
7.6.18
Art

Infamous Erotic Novel 'Story of O' Inspired Natalie Frank's Arousing Art

The kinky French 'fairy tale,' as the artist calls it, was taboo for decades.
Julia Gray
6.11.18
bdsm

A BDSM Educator Tells Us Why NXIVM Sex Cult Allegations Aren’t Consensual Kink

Based on what we know from court docs and former members, Keith Raniere’s women “slaves” probably weren’t in a position to give full consent.
Sarah Berman
5.31.18
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