non-monogamy

Sex

How to Be a Great Third in a Threesome

The VICE Guide to finding your inner unicorn.
Allison Tierney
8.13.18
relationships

Yes, It Is Possible to Cheat in Poly Relationships

“I don’t need to know every detail, but if it’s big enough to lie about it, then it probably shouldn’t be happening.”
Allison Tierney
3.20.18
Dating

What Online Dating Is Like When You’re Poly

It's all good until someone spots you on Bumble and assumes you're cheating on your partner.
Allison Tierney
1.18.18
relationships

We Asked People in Poly Relationships What It’s Like to Raise Kids

How do you explain mom and dad’s new girlfriend?
Allison Tierney
10.13.17
relationships

We Asked Couples Why They Opened Up Their Relationship

From having a micropenis to living on different continents, non-monogamous couples answer the questions friends are too afraid to ask.
Mica Lemiski
5.29.17
Stuff

What It’s Like to Tell Your Friends and Family You’re Polyamorous

“It was basically like I'd said: ‘Mom, I have to tell you something. I eat chairs.’”
Jesse Donaldson
5.13.17
relationships

Why We Need to Challenge the Culture of Monogamy

Relationship norms are so pervasive that they've led to flawed science.
Allison Tierney
3.30.17
Stuff

What It’s Like to Be the Other Guy in an Open Marriage

I didn't want to be a homewrecker. But that's how a lot of people see it.
Anonymous
7.11.16
Stuff

We Talked to Polyamorous People About How They Make Their Relationships Work

If you want to bang other people while you're already in a relationship, there might be a few rules to follow.
Allison Tierney
7.7.16
Stuff

​What We Learned About Sex in 2014

Technology is changing the way we have sex, "rosebudding" is a thing, the British government can't handle face-sitting, and everybody likes butts.
Monica Heisey
12.24.14
Stuff

How to Have a Non-Monogomous Relationship

The seminal book on non-monogamy, The Ethical Slut, was published in 1997—but that shit is hard to read. So we made this easily digestible A-to-Z guide to understanding non-monogamy instead.
Monica Heisey
9.10.14