At the first annual Ugly Conference, attendees aren't trying to "reclaim" anything. They're just trying to be seen as they are.
"My soggy spring roll / You lil grow-er, not show-er..."
Basing your expectations on the massive dicks seen in porn only makes it worse.
Your thermostat is probably a little sexist.
Just because we're in a period of genetic stability doesn't mean we're not still changing.
Here's how you can be an ally.