This article originally appeared on VICE Denmark.Everybody has regrets. Not just the kind that hits you a couple of hours after buying a pair of funky moccasins because you felt the sudden urge to spice up your style a little bit—but the real stuff. I'm talking about the regrets you bottle up—those that keep you awake at night, wishing you could go back in time and change things."Regret is a modern taboo," psychotherapist and former priest Ilse Sand explained to me. "There's a lot of pressure on being perfect and having everything under control, so it's become hard to admit to ourselves that we've made a bad decision we regret." Which is a shame because when we don't have regrets, we miss out on the chance to make up for our mistakes—or learn not to make them again.
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I asked five brave souls to tell me what they regret most in life because talking about it makes everything better.
Céleste Nshimiyimana, 25, Student
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A couple of days later, I drove over to her place to pick up my stuff. We said a quick goodbye, and that was it. I guess we were both too proud to suggest trying to move past that last fight. I think about her a lot—I've never cared more deeply about any girl in my life. If I had listened to her, we might still be together now.
Fanny Olhats, 27, Journalist
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