sex and relationships

sex and relationships

Why We Love People Who Don't Love Us Back

In 2007, a boy came on my tights at a house party and then abruptly stopped talking to me – and I've been obsessed with him ever since.
Kitty Drake
3.26.18
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What It's Like to Stay with the Person Who Cheated on You

Nothing says festive cheer quite like people's stories of the times they stayed with an unfaithful partner!
Salma Haidrani
12.22.16
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Why Not Letting Go of Your Ex Might Not Always Be a Terrible Idea

The psychological arguments for and against digging up old memories of shagging your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend.
Tshepo Mokoena
11.27.16
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We Asked a Load of People About the Last Time They Faked an Orgasm

"He thought we came together, but the whole time I was mentally planning what I was gonna put in my curry later."
Tom Usher
11.20.16
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What It's Like to Date Across a Culture Gap

We spoke to couples to find out what no one tells you about dating across language barriers, ethnicities and the UK's north-south divide.
Salma Haidrani
11.19.16
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What It's Like to Be a Millennial in a Sexless Relationship

A recent study found that people in their early twenties are having less sex than those born in the 1960s, so we figured we'd chat to some twenty-somethings in sexless relationships.
Salma Haidrani
10.20.16
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People Tell Us About the Moment on a Date When They Knew It Was Doomed

We asked a load of people about their awful "date epiphanies", when they clocked they'd never see that person ever again.
Morgan Harries
10.16.16
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Why Are Young Men in the UK So Scared of Cunnilingus?

We asked an expert, and a few people in their early 20s, whether they think there's truth to the theory that men expect oral sex without wanting to lick back.
Morgan Harries
9.25.16
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Men Tell Us Why They Cheated

Last week we asked women what made them cheat, so in the interest of gender equality and whatnot, this week we asked some guys.
Tom Usher
9.22.16
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Women Tell Us Why They Cheated

One strand of evolutionary biology suggests women are programmed to cheat to find the best possible sperm, so we figured we'd ask around.
Salma Haidrani
9.15.16
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We Asked an Expert About that Data on Right-Wing People Having Happier Sex Lives

Look, no one just wants to sit here and accept the fact that being "very right-wing" means you're having a better time with sex. We need answers.
Morgan Harries
9.11.16
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Real Sex Education Means Teaching Kids the Power of 'No'

As someone whose entire sex education was a 20-stone nun denouncing abortion, I'm right behind Stella Creasy's pledge to make PSHE compulsory from primary school upwards.
Joanna Fuertes Knight
1.28.15