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It Sucks That Fantasy Isn’t Reality: Advice from So Sad Today
With a stranger, there are so many empty spaces we get to fill with our imagination, but as we get to know a person better, there are less blanks.
Six Reasons Why I Didn’t Say 'Stop' Even Though the Sex Was Bad
There was no clear power imbalance, and in many of these encounters I was totally sober. Yet I still wasn’t able to, or was afraid to, access my voice.
'I Thought Depression Was a White People Disease': a Conversation with Depressed While Black
The creator of the #DepressedWhileBlack Twitter account on the specific challenges she faces at the intersection of depression and blackness.
An Anxiety Expert Explains How to Make Panic Attacks Your Bitch
I spoke to the man who helped me rethink my anxiety in the hopes that he can do the same for you.
How to Not Cure Your Panic Attacks
The things that have helped me the most in the midst of severe panic attacks have not been attempts to "cure" the attacks, but to reframe the narrative of what I'm experiencing.
Highly Fuckable People Have Issues Too
Porn star Tayte Hanson might be a glistening big-dicked hardbody, but he's got problems just like the rest of us.