This Is How We Do It
"I actually like penetration better. It used to be the least sensitive part for me. Now, I can feel it more, and it helps me orgasm."
“Maybe it doesn’t matter if my underwear touches the couch. Maybe something bad will happen, or maybe not. I’ll deal with that later.”
"I eventually learned that I’ve got perfectly good feet and an amazing mouth."
"We take showers together. We touch. We kiss. We sleep together. We hold each other. We meow like cats."
"I knew I could trust him because I was just a woman he knew – he wasn’t there for the novelty factor."
"Normal ejaculation looks one way. But I ejaculated a bunch of blood, and it was scary as hell."
"We’ve had some friends who’ve asked us, 'If you can’t see, how do you find each other attractive?'"
"I’ve had sex while using oxygen before. You have to learn how to work with it, because it’s easy to get tangled in the tubing."
"The first thing I noticed was the absolute lack of sensation."
"I was first reading about penile injections being like, 'yeah, I don’t think so.' But on the other side of surgery, when reality came in, it was like, 'Yeah, let's maybe give that a shot.'"
"I found out early that I’m not always good at using my fingers, but I am good at using my tongue. So why not focus on that and try to get good?"
"My sex life is better than at any other time, even during the 'free love' era of the 60s and 70s."