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'Animal Crossing' Reminds Me to Look After Myself—Not Just My Avatar
Some of my goals are made simpler when I don’t think of myself as a human body, but as a player in a game.
to all the boys i've loved before
Seeing Myself in Lara Jean Was About More than Representation
"To All the Boys I've Loved Before" is a love letter to Asian girls precisely because it doesn't make its casting a political point, or even a plot point.
Instagram DMs Are an Antidote to the Difficulties of Adult Friendships
In these conversations, I feel like we’re keeping the friendship alive, finding ways to fit moments of connection into our weird, sprawling, digital-and-not-digital lives.
Exploring Black Women's Sexuality and BDSM in NYC's Oldest Dungeon
The one-night-only art installation and performance "Sexual Fragments Absent" transformed Manhattan's oldest dungeon with emoji videos, disturbingly beautiful sculptures, and interactive play performances.
Working at a High-End Sex Shop
On selling lube, miming sex acts, and mediating desire.