Spencer Williams

body

What You Need to Know About Consent and Disability

The people entrusted to care for me need to understand and respect my boundaries.
Spencer Williams
5.13.19
Stuff

How to Navigate a Differently-Abled Relationship

An interview with Ben Mattlin, the author of 'In Sickness and In Health,' on life, his new book, and the secret to maintaining any relationship.
Spencer Williams
3.16.18
Stuff

Living Alone Is Awesome, Even with My Disability

Growing up with cerebral palsy, I always thought having my own apartment was an impossible dream.
Spencer Williams
12.27.17
Sex

I Give Disabled People Orgasms for a Living

And I'm proud of it.
Spencer Williams
5.18.17
bars

Why I Don't Like Going to Bars as a Disabled Person

From inaccessible bathrooms to weird looks, drinking with your friends at a pub isn't such a piece of cake.
Spencer Williams
4.5.17
Views My Own

Winter Sucks When You Have a Disability

Snow might be a lovely thing for some, but for me and my power wheelchair, it's an immobilizing force.
Spencer Williams
2.13.17
NSFW

I Have Cerebral Palsy and I'm Happy to Pay for Sex

My sex surrogate has helped me to become more confident and comfortable in my own skin.
Spencer Williams
1.12.17
Stuff

Are Disability Fetishists Exploiting People with Disabilities?

Devoteeism is a sexual fetish in which people get all horned up over a wide range of disabilities. As someone with cerebral palsy who uses a wheelchair, my feelings on devotees are complicated.
Spencer Williams
11.24.16
Stuff

The Difficulties of Dating with a Disability

Online dating isn't easy for anyone, but it can be especially tough for those of us with disabilities.
Spencer Williams
11.10.16
Stuff

What My Disability Means for My Sex Life

People are often surprised to hear that those of us with disabilities have sexual desires. We do, it's just not as easy for us to fulfill them.
Spencer Williams
10.27.16