Doin It Well


What I Learned from Testing Men for HIV at Gay Bathhouses

I brought the clinic to people in my community who—for a number of reasons—might not otherwise set foot in one.


In Search of the Elusive Orgasm

Between 16 and 25 percent of women and 1 to 4 percent of men experience the inability to orgasm at some point in their lives.


These Sex Games Could Help You Explore Desires You Didn’t Even Know You Had

A sex therapist explained three types of games you should try and one you shouldn't.


Being a Single Mother Made Me Embrace the Sex Drive I Thought Was Dead

Newly single moms can be horny as hell. I can testify.


I Went to a Sex Resort to Try and Learn to Be 'Monogamish'

Apparently, you can have an open relationship without being totally polyamorous.


Most People Don’t Actually Want Sex to Last Very Long

There's apparently a “Goldilocks range”—a duration of sex that most people would describe as being just right.


Penises Shrink With Age

And other dick size data you may or may not want to know.


A Beginner's Guide to Anal Sex

If you want to jump on the A-train or make your version of anal sex better, consider the following.


Skipping the Gym Is Bad for Boners

...and other penis mistakes you don't want to be making.


I Took Knockoff Viagra Until I Learned What’s In It

Bypassing the need to get a prescription saved me the $20 co-pay I’d need to shell out to see a doctor, which would also save me some blushes.


What to Do if the Condom Breaks During Sex

A doctor's guide on what to do if a condom fails you.


I Went on a Mission to Make Myself Like Shower Sex

I turned my bathroom from the place in which I poop, floss, and squeeze pimples to something more conducive to sexy time.