Fantasies

Music

We Asked People the Weirdest Fantasies They Have While Listening to Music

“I would imagine screaming the lyrics over this cliff edge, hurling all the anger at my family and friends below.”
Daisy Jones
1.31.19
so sad today

A Hard Feeling Doesn’t Mean It’s Wrong: Advice from So Sad Today

The act of mourning is a very natural part of an ending—and sadness can be present even when an ending is totally right.
So Sad Today
11.22.18
hard data

We Fantasize About Our Romantic Partners More Than Anyone Else

By contrast, fewer than one in ten people say they fantasize frequently about celebrities, porn stars, politicians, or other famous people.
Justin Lehmiller, PhD
8.30.18
Sex

How to Stop Feeling Guilty About What You Want in Bed

Repressing your sexual desires is bad for your sex life.
Justin Lehmiller, PhD
7.6.18
Sex

The More Straight People Drink, the More They're Into Gay Sex

Beer goggles apparently make us interested in just about everyone.
Justin Lehmiller, PhD
4.27.17
Work That Poll

How Unusual Are Your Sexual Fantasies? Take This Quiz to Find Out

You may not be as freaky as you think.
Tonic Editors
2.23.17
Sex

We Asked Asexuals What They Fantasize About

"I fantasize about my future with my partner, achieving a certain level of success in our careers, getting out of debt. Oh, and cake. Don't forget about cake."
Helaina Hovitz
12.21.16
Books

The Sex We're Having Versus the Sex We Think We Should Be Having

Rachel Hills's "The Sex Myth" tries to dissect the meaning of sex—without considering that maybe it doesn't mean all that much.
Jessa Crispin
8.4.15
Film

'Thought Crimes' Explores the Story of the 'Cannibal Cop' and Our Right to Have Demented Desires

Former NYPD officer Gilberto 'Gil' Valle's was almost locked up just for having fantasies of kidnapping and slowly roasting women on a spit. Erin Lee Carr's new documentary takes a deeper look at his story and the implications it has for our society.
Danielle Neftin
4.18.15
Interviews

Thinkin' and Beer: A Conversation with a Man Named Ludacris

The Atlanta rapper is back with his eighth studio album 'Ludaversal,' so we asked him what a decade in rap, acting, and living has taught him.
Eric Diep
3.25.15
Photo

Gay Photography Legend James Bidgood Needs Help Buying a Camera

People often cite James Bidgood's photography as a precursor to David LaChapelle's work, but the legendary gay photographer needs help buying a camera.
Hugh Ryan
1.11.15
thump video

Funky Man Under Bridge Lives it Up in Mouse on Mars' New Video

The video is released as part of '21,' a double disc retrospective on the band's output featuring collaborations with everyone from Modeselektor to Machinedrum.
Jemayel Khawaja
10.31.14
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