sex and relationships
Bisexual Women Explain Why They Hate Being 'Unicorn Hunted' for Threesomes
As nonmonogamous dating and polyamory have become more popular, the practice of couples using dating apps to deceive women into being their mythical 'third' is on the rise.
If You Wanna Be Poly, You Can't Be a Jealous Mess
'It's not monogamy, you don’t get to tell anybody who to love and how to love and how not to love.'
My Boner-Pill Habit Became a Dependence on Nasal Spray
Allow me to explain.
What Cheating Looks Like in a Polyamorous Relationship
"In non-monogamy, you can have your cake and eat it too—so why are you sneaking cake in the middle of the night?”
The Truth About Jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships
Yes, polyamorous people can feel jealousy—and cheat. Lola Phoenix shares how they navigate those emotions in their polyamorous relationships and gives advice if you're questioning whether polyamory is for you.
so sad today
Sometimes It Sucks to Be Who We Are: Advice from So Sad Today
If you don't think you're going to be comfortable with a polyamorous relationship, you probably won't.
So Sad Today
How I Made Consensual Non-Monogamy Work
My girlfriend was the one interested in the idea of being open; I was duly terrified at the prospect. I asked for a six-month freeze on the non-monogamy plan—which turned out to be exactly what I needed.
I Went to a Sex Resort to Try and Learn to Be 'Monogamish'
Apparently, you can have an open relationship without being totally polyamorous.
I'm the 'Unicorn' in a Three-Person Relationship
For Nicole Everett, being in a throuple with married couple Cathy and Thomas helps her feel loved, secure, and fulfilled.
I Was a Jealous Partner Until I Went on a Swingers Vacation
If you told me a year ago that I'd watch my husband get a blowjob from a stranger and not feel jealous, I'd have laughed in your face.
How to Be a Great Third in a Threesome
A complete guide to finding your inner unicorn.
What We Can All Learn from Polyamorous Relationships
"Many Love," Sophie Lucido Johnson's new memoir chronicling her years of polyamorous partnerships, is actually a lesson on what it means to be committed.