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Doing What You Love Is Hard: Advice from So Sad Today

It may seem that others are achieving “liberation” through following their passions, but what you might not see is the hard work behind it.
Melissa Broder
5.30.19
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From No Self-Esteem to Low Self-Esteem: Advice from So Sad Today

I’ve found that the less pressure I place on myself to love myself—at least the way the self-care industrial complex peddles that concept—the better I feel.
So Sad Today
4.12.19
so sad today

It Sucks That Fantasy Isn’t Reality: Advice from So Sad Today

With a stranger, there are so many empty spaces we get to fill with our imagination, but as we get to know a person better, there are less blanks.
So Sad Today
3.25.19
so sad today

The Year of Saying No: Advice from So Sad Today

From August 2018 to August 2019, I am only saying yes to requests out of a creative interest, a financial need, or a genuine desire to be of service based on love and friendship.
So Sad Today
3.8.19
so sad today

Sometimes It Sucks to Be Who We Are: Advice from So Sad Today

If you don't think you're going to be comfortable with a polyamorous relationship, you probably won't.
So Sad Today
1.25.19
so sad today

We Know Nothing and It’s Good: Advice from So Sad Today

Maybe death is not twisted and horrifying? What if it’s a full-time orgasmic bliss suspended in light?
So Sad Today
1.4.19
so sad today

There Is No There: Advice from So Sad Today

The thing about arriving is that it’s elusive.
So Sad Today
12.14.18
so sad today

A Hard Feeling Doesn’t Mean It’s Wrong: Advice from So Sad Today

The act of mourning is a very natural part of an ending—and sadness can be present even when an ending is totally right.
So Sad Today
11.22.18
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Six Reasons Why I Didn’t Say 'Stop' Even Though the Sex Was Bad

There was no clear power imbalance, and in many of these encounters I was totally sober. Yet I still wasn’t able to, or was afraid to, access my voice.
Melissa Broder
5.31.18
so sad today

'I Thought Depression Was a White People Disease': a Conversation with Depressed While Black

The creator of the #DepressedWhileBlack Twitter account on the specific challenges she faces at the intersection of depression and blackness.
So Sad Today
3.15.18
so sad today

Help! I Found an SSRI That Works, but Now I Can't Cum

Advice from So Sad Today.
So Sad Today
2.16.18
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Know That You Don't Know Shit: Advice from So Sad Today

You can't always fix people.
So Sad Today
1.23.18
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