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Kaling, the Dartmouth-educated child of Indian immigrants, author of two best-selling books and former cast-member of The Office, is frequently on the receiving end of questions about race. When asked in 2014 whether it was a conscious decision for her to be the only female doctor of color on the show, Kaling snapped, "I'm a fucking Indian woman who has her own fucking network television show, OK?" She continued, exasperated: "I have four series regulars that are women on my show, and no one asks any of the shows I adore […] why no leads on their shows are women or of color." Speaking with NPR that same year, she opined, "I think that it's insidious to be spending more of your time reflecting about your otherness rather than doing the hard work of your job." Kaling seems uninterested in joining the ranks of comedians like Aziz Ansari, Russell Peters, or Kal Penn, who frequently refer to their race and cultural background. And yet by simply being herself, Kaling already is—and always has been—a part of that heritage. The decision to assimilate, after all, is an equally valid, if less popular reaction to diaspora.Perhaps it's an in-your-face response to the whiteness of rom-coms, where she, a self-described 'chubby' Indian woman, is the center of attention, the narcissistic, flawed, and inscrutable object of desire.
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Despite her desire to avoid such realities, at times it seems Kaling wishes to subvert the average-girl-next-door rom-com image, conveying the message that one doesn't have to be a petite blonde with socioeconomic means to get powerful, attractive white men and possibly achieve a happy ending. Perhaps it's an in-your-face response to the whiteness of rom-coms, where she, a self-described "chubby" Indian woman, is the center of attention, the narcissistic, flawed, and inscrutable object of desire. In fact, Kaling's protagonist is so self-involved that Al Jazeera called Mindy Lahiri's character "ahistorical," arguing that Kaling "appears to be a woman without any family or community," "a character simply born of the imagined community of lovelorn career women whose identities are defined purely by what they buy."
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And the future is what Kaling embodies very self-consciously. She knows there has never been a situation where an Indian-American woman on TV is giving birth out of wedlock with parents who are uncommonly chill about it. There has never been an Indian-American woman who makes her male characters constantly comment on her weight only to humorously brush it off (Kaling has often said she would be more offended by being called not smart or witty than not beautiful). Kaling understands all these statements about her being a "pioneer," but rejects it. Her act of dissent, it would seem, is to just make all this seem normal—like the content is no big deal. It refuses to acknowledge that her place in life as a major player in the world of comedy, especially as a woman of color, took a lot of hustle.Kaling's world—and, indeed, perhaps the world of the future—is one where she doesn't have to look like Meg Ryan to be worthy of desire, where a dream of romance sold to white girls can now be sold back (and bought, believed, fantasized about) by a brown girl. It's a feat to normalize a consistently othered face, and despite the critics' cries, Kaling knows that very well.Follow Janaki on Twitter.The Mindy Project airs on Tuesdays on Hulu.On Motherboard: We Talked to Aziz Ansari About Why Smartphone Dating Sucks