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As we have seen, having a stiff upper lip or always acting the lad can quickly become exhausting, unsustainable and damaging. Patriarchy might privilege men who conform to its narrow view of success – i.e. those who are heterosexual, financially profitable, stoical, invulnerable and domineering – but it's less accommodating to those who don't conform. As such, it can be difficult to admit to going through a phase of crisis, depression or anxiety. The roles, character traits and behaviours we associate with manhood are all about control, but when men experience mental health problems, they lose control.But gender isn't the only thing that has an impact on the probability of suicide. Unsurprisingly, the amount of cash in your pocket and life chances you have makes a difference, too. Those in the poorest socio-economic circumstances are ten times more likely to commit suicide than the affluent.That said, it has to be remembered that it's never possible to truly know why someone chooses to take their own life. For this very reason, it's imperative we see the bigger picture and try to understand why so many men come to feel that they have no purpose, value or significance. Centres like the Eaton Foundation bring us further on this quest. The simple, humble act of providing a secure place for men to openly express their problems free from judgment will hopefully save many preventable deaths.
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