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At some point, this cauldron of over-heated desire ran into an actual live female, with predictably disastrous results. I was 15, the girl's name was Lisa, and to this day she has no idea of the part she played in my earliest sexual misadventure. That's because the party, as they say, was in my pants. That's right: I'm one of those preposterous guys who has literally jizzed himself in public.It happened while waiting to go into class. I'd had my eye on Lisa for a while, and one day, I tried flirting with her. She must've reluctantly decided I was the best option in our class of fairly gormless-looking teenage boys, because Lisa responded positively to my lame chat-up line. We started shoving each other around (how kids in my school tended to communicate sexual interest) and one way or another, I found myself behind her with my arms draped over her shoulders.I could feel her breasts pressed against my forearms. Just a slight adjustment, I thought, and I could have them in my hands. The corridor was filling up with other kids. I could feel their eyes on us. What was I doing! But Lisa seemed to coax me to go further."You're too tall," she said in a soft, comely voice, bumping her butt against me.I tried to play it cool. "Yeah well you're too sma…"SPLUFF!I've told that story several times in my life, not always climaxing with the word "spluff," but always as an amusing anecdote. It seems natural to make a joke out of it, but at the time, it was anything but funny. Especially since my experience in the school hallway ended up predicting my sex life for the next ten years.That's right: I'm one of those preposterous guys who has literally jizzed himself in public.
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A couple of years after Lisa, I met a girl called Vicky, who became my first girlfriend. I was totally in love with Vicky, though our abortive attempts at sex were usually over before they began. Just having our naked bits in the vicinity of one another was enough to set me off. I was so devastated when she dumped me that—in a gesture high in romantic cant but low in environmental friendliness—I took a crappy plastic bracelet she had given me and solemnly buried it at the bottom of the garden.On Broadly: More male porn stars are relying on erectile dysfunction medication to keep it up.
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By this point I'd given up hope of ever having a normal sex life. The only consolation was that I was at least able to make girls come. Oral sex is the ace up the sleeve of premature ejaculators: Ed calls it his "best friend," and Dr. Kerner has authored a best-selling book about it, called She Comes First, in which he outlines "a methodology for consistently leading women to orgasm" through cunnilingus.Related: Can Men Fake Orgasms? And Other Debates On Wikipedia's Sex Pages
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