Handsome porn star James Deen. Photo via Wikimedia Commons
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He doesn't have answers. Deen is clear about that off the top. I'm quickly relieved, however, when he tells me he also doesn't have heightened powers to make himself attracted to someone he's not attracted to.He does, however, acknowledge the importance of communication. Deen always makes a point of talking to his partners to understand their intentions in order to get him to their level."Sometimes when I'm having sex with people, their desires and motivations to have sex is a physical thing, or an emotional thing, or just a fun thing," he says. "It's just about working with that person and then doing things together. But there's no trick that's going to work every time, with everyone."
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When it comes to getting intimate with someone who, let's say, doesn't have the greatest hygiene, Deen does his best not to let judgment rule the day. Again, it has to do with communication and understanding.
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Even the guy whose artistic practice involves having sex with different women every single day can acknowledge that life is a constant challenge that will never stop throwing you more constant challenges.
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