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Resettling in this new place wasn't easy. Our neighbors in the park were difficult people; the police were a constant presence. Disdain for Sonoma County and its perceived privilege popped up often enough in conversation that I stopped telling people where I'd lived previously. And while I threw myself into making local ties—again working for multiple local businesses enough that I was recognized by customers when I was out walking in town (I don't drive)—it wasn't enough. When my father died and I needed help staying local after escaping from a genuinely unstable landlord, it turned out that of all the ties I had developed in almost a decade, none were strong enough to help me. I was on the road again, this time back to Sonoma County to stay with family. A rewind.Read More: Angel Haze on Striving, Struggling, and Surviving
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I just applied for and missed out on a place back in Ukiah that amounted to 90 square feet plus a bathroom. No kitchen. If you Google "90 square feet" [27 square metres] you'll find an article about a tiny place in Manhattan, and the tenant who simplified her life—using Marie Kondo's book as a guide, naturally—so it could fit into a perfect little nest. Ironically, she has on her walls two pieces of art that often adorn mine (when I have walls): Patti Smith's Horses on vinyl, and a print reading, "Your heart is a muscle the size of your fist; keep loving, keep fighting." I used to like that sentiment, but having fallen into the same residential crevasse yet again, my heart feels more like a raisin, and defeat has leeched a lot of the fight out of my bones.That tiny place in Ukiah I won't be moving into was appealing for its reasonable rent, but also because I am on a waiting list through the Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) for something called a Housing Choice Voucher. When I reach the top of the list, it means that if I find a place that will accept my voucher, my rent will scale up and down with my income, but the landlord is paid in full no matter what. It's subsidized housing, just with more options for where to go. It also means the place has to pass a very elementary inspection that my rented trailer would never have survived, increasing the chances of my being in a safe home. To most people, maybe a home without mice and rats and as many as seven leaks is something to take for granted, but when you've experienced the alternative, it takes on special value.My income is too low for low-income housing.
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It was during the application process for that 90 square foot (27 square metres) "efficiency unit" that I called the Community Development Commission in Ukiah—these are the people who administer the county's HUD programs—and asked about my status on the waiting list. I found myself slowly drifting into something like shock as the clerk explained to me that ever since I'd moved out of the county and sent them my change of address, I was no longer moving up the waiting list in Mendocino County, either. This time, it's because I was located too far away. I have called HUD's San Francisco office twice now but have not had my calls returned, and two emails explaining this situation in detail and asking for assistance sorting it out have been met with generic, non-responses. "Thanks for your interest. Here is a list of waiting lists, should you wish to sign up for one." I honestly don't know what I'm going to do.It has been challenging to keep my current employment as a writer stable while I bounce from place to place. Since a lot of my work comes through the mail (books for review, and checks for those reviews), each displacement has left a stress fracture on my working life. Checks left behind. A sensitive document delivered to a past address, whose new occupants made no effort to forward it. Complaints from my boss that I seem detached and unenthusiastic on the page. With no permanent option on the horizon, my next move will likely be another temporary stop, but I have measured out my life in temporary spaces. I am hungry to have a home again, but I'm worried my home is here, frozen in place on two lists each asking me to wait forever.I have measured out my life in temporary spaces.
From camping, to two different trailers, to these last moves, I have been living out of boxes and plastic bins for over a decade now. The trailer park was an address, sure, but the fact that I could never unpack there meant it was never a home. I've always thought that was something I had to look forward to. And I find myself packing again. Packing is a dance of constant reversal: Reopening packed boxes to find things I still need while I wait for a place to open up. This isn't a good life, this constant instability and the uncomfortable awareness that wherever I am I'm not wanted.While making phone calls and trying to find more housing resources I am constantly referred to homeless shelters, which either haven't opened for the season yet or are already full and also require a waiting list. Being homeless with my father conferred two benefits: He had a car and he was a man. In one of the campgrounds where we stayed, a fellow homeless camper developed an interest in me that I did not reciprocate. Having someone to hide behind was a matter of personal safety. When I think about trying to do it on my own, I can't take it all in or face it as a possibility. It's too much. I can't seem to loveorfight for my life right now, but surrender is not an option, either. So I keep packing and unpacking the same boxes, praying for some justice after going far too long without.Read More: How Much Would the Rent in 'Rent' Be Today?