Polyamory won't fix your problems or save your relationship, but it may help you grow.
It's gr8 not being str8.
Gay or straight, relationship or no relationship, context is completely irrelevant if you've said "no". But that doesn't mean I'm not scared of the police taking me seriously as a gay man.
I learned what "racial play" is and had a rather shitty experience with a "straight" guy who was into having sex with men.
How the movie helped me come out after my time as a student in Newcastle, which I spent trying and failing to get my closeted rugby-playing sex partner to commit.