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How Sexting Is Changing Our Sex Lives IRL
Strange as it may seem, sexting represents the real us—the better version of us.
In Praise of Being a Single Woman with No Need for Marriage
We are living in the age of the single woman—I should know, because I'm one of them, and I'm fine with it.
How to Come to Terms with Your Attraction to 'Fat Girls'
This goes out to all the dudes who have told me "I'm not attracted to fat girls," even though they had sex with me and I am fat.
Why Do I Suck at Dealing with Rejection?
Why is it so soul-crushingly sad when a guy says he doesn't want to date me?
My Disastrous Attempt to Use Self-Help Books to 'Get' Me a Man
Did I learn more about myself? Yeah. But did I get laid?
Why Can't a Woman Decide to Be Childless Without Being Called Selfish?
I'm not sure if I want kids or not, but I know I'm tired of everyone telling me what I should want.
I Tried to Find Love on a Jewish Mom-Based Dating Site Before It Shut Down
JMom is basically like a 21st Century version of Fiddler on the Roof. What could go wrong? I invited my mom to test it out.
I Went to a Nude Comedy Show and Learned to Accept My Body
You know how people say you can calm your nerves by imagining everyone in the audience naked? That's exactly what this was like.
Casual Sex Made Me Feel Manipulated, Until I Learned to Ask for What I Want
People sent me a lot of hate mail after I wrote about not giving blowjobs, but it took me a lot of time and bad sexual experiences before I figured out what I want out of sex, and how to get it.
Why I Don't Give Blowjobs
Am I being selfish? Probably. But I believe I earned that selfishness after many years of having sexual encounters with men who rarely bothered to reciprocate.
Do Fat Girls Have More Risky Sex?
A number of studies have suggested that fat teenage girls are less likely to have relationships and more likely to engage in dangerous sexual behaviors. How true are those statistics?
Living Alone Is Everything I've Ever Wanted, So Why Do I Feel So Miserable?
On escaping the trauma of roommates only to fall right into a "single-woman-living-alone" stereotype.