A Handy Guide to Navigating the Endless Rules of Polyamory

Or; why dating someone who already has a partner might be a bad idea.


You Don’t Need the Same Personality as Your Partner to Be Happy

This is where dating apps have it all wrong.


I Tried Rope Bondage as a Coping Mechanism for My Anxiety

It felt like yoga—a steady, reliable movement from discomfort to comfort and I was in control of the pace.


How Dirty Is Going Ass to Mouth?

Eating your own poop is shockingly not that bad for you.


It Sucks That Fantasy Isn’t Reality: Advice from So Sad Today

With a stranger, there are so many empty spaces we get to fill with our imagination, but as we get to know a person better, there are less blanks.


How Your Drug Taking Will Affect Your Relationships

We spoke to an academic who studied the effects of two people with different "drug personalities" hooking up.


Women Can Spot Narcissists and Psychopaths, Even When They’re Drunk

Research suggests that women can still see straight through men with "dark triad" personality traits—even after a drink or two.


Let's Talk Boundaries

Having boundaries is just the recognition that you’re soft and permeable and everything you encounter has its own energy that you’re subject to and have to manage, all on your own.


What Happened to This Couple After the Husband Came Out as Trans

"There was a very small chance we'd make it through it, but here we are more than a year later."


I Cheated on My Boyfriend and Got Pregnant—and the Guilt Almost Destroyed Me

After I cheated on my boyfriend with a classmate, I found out I was pregnant—and wasn't sure whose it was. But even worse than the unwanted pregnancy, I was surprised to learn, was the guilt.


Why You Shouldn't Date Rich People if You're Broke

It’s easy to think of shagging someone well-off as a form of redistributive justice, but you need to be honest about where the power lies.