relationships
Our Favourite Break-Up Songs From New Zealand’s Best
Looking for a soundtrack to your sadness? Here are some of Aotearoa’s best break-up songs.
A Psychologist Breaks Down People’s Relationship Takes
"It is never the other person’s responsibility to keep communicating to you that your feelings are unrequited, or not mutual".
I’m a Solosexual. I Prefer Masturbation to Partnered Sex
"I have a housemate, so I can’t do everything I’d like to, such as buying sex toys or converting my shed into a goon cave."
Before and After Photos of Bad Tattoos and Their Cover-Ups
For three days, a tattoo shop offered free cover-ups to anyone with a tattoo about their ex. We went to hear the stories of the people that came.
Before Giving Dating Advice, They Made Porn Together
Angela White and Emma Rose’s new call-in show ‘Thotline’ isn’t the first time the girls worked together.
Adjusting to a Relationship After Being Single Basically Forever
I didn't miss casual sex – I missed myself.
People Tell us Their Tips to Deal with Break-Up Loneliness
“Treating yourself to your favourite things and revelling in not having to share.”
How to Stop Your Past Relationships Affecting How You Date
It's time to let go of the idea that everyone with floppy-hair and a wide-grin will like you just because the last person did.
A Late Bloomer's Guide to Sex
Nobody is just good at sex. But getting to know yourself and being open about your experience will help you get there.
Dating Couples: A Beginner's Guide
Whether you're the third party in a threeway or a couple looking for other pairs, it doesn't have to get messy or complicated.
I Regret Not Ending My Relationship Earlier. Is It Too Late?
“He forgot my birthday and flirted with my friends. Now he’s changed, but I’m still furious about the way he treated me.”
Does ‘Taking a Break’ From a Relationship Make Sense? We Ask People Who Did It.
It might be the best way to make thing work in the long run... Or it might be the beginning of the end.