relationships
My Friend Is in an Unhealthy Relationship. How Do I Tell Her?
I don't know everything about their relationship and I don't want to pass judgement. But I miss my friend, and I'm concerned.
Revenge Porn Victims Share Their Stories
‘I didn't even know that I could be mad at my partner about it’
People Tell Us Their Relationship Deal-Breakers
What does it take to stop you from sticking with a partner?
Brutal Dating Advice for Millennials, From Gen Z
“Why are you going on so many dates? That sounds like a bit of a red flag.”
Bad Sex Advice, From People Who Found Out the Hard Way
“it was pretty traumatising, but also quite revealing about what a lot of gay people experience.”
People Talk About Being ‘Chronically Single’
“Maybe not everyone is destined to find someone romantic to spend their life with, and perhaps that’s OK.”
Why It’s So Hard to Leave an Abusive Relationship
Outsiders often question why someone would remain in a toxic relationship. But as a survivor, I know how impossible breaking your silence can feel.
Why Do All the Men in My Life Walk So Fast?
I spoke to other women about what I'm calling the great gender walking gap.
How to Support a Partner With Suicidal Thoughts
Asking all the “wrong” questions can actually lead to honest and open conversations, says psychologist Lidewy Hendriks.
Our Favourite Break-Up Songs From New Zealand’s Best
Looking for a soundtrack to your sadness? Here are some of Aotearoa’s best break-up songs.