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How to Have Money

Once you have it there are a lot of things you can do with it. Kate Carraway is here to steer you in the right direction.
Kate Carraway
3 days ago
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How to Be Together

Existing with another human is a difficult thing to do. Luckily, Kate Carraway's got advice.
Kate Carraway
4.22.19
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From No Self-Esteem to Low Self-Esteem: Advice from So Sad Today

I’ve found that the less pressure I place on myself to love myself—at least the way the self-care industrial complex peddles that concept—the better I feel.
So Sad Today
4.12.19
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So You Want to Be 'Creative'

There are qualities in a person more important than being creative, but you wouldn't know it from scrolling through Instagram.
Kate Carraway
4.4.19
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How to Stay Friends with Your Ex

It can be hard to stay friends with an ex. Here's how to know when to stay close, when to draw a boundary, and when to just give up.
Anna Pulley
4.3.19
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It Sucks That Fantasy Isn’t Reality: Advice from So Sad Today

With a stranger, there are so many empty spaces we get to fill with our imagination, but as we get to know a person better, there are less blanks.
So Sad Today
3.25.19
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Time Is Everything

It determines more about your life than anything except money, and obviously “time” and “money” give each other meaning, value, and possibility.
Kate Carraway
3.21.19
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The Year of Saying No: Advice from So Sad Today

From August 2018 to August 2019, I am only saying yes to requests out of a creative interest, a financial need, or a genuine desire to be of service based on love and friendship.
So Sad Today
3.8.19
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Let's Talk Boundaries

Having boundaries is just the recognition that you’re soft and permeable and everything you encounter has its own energy that you’re subject to and have to manage, all on your own.
Kate Carraway
3.4.19
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How to Ritual

Rituals reorganize, affirm, and codify the emotional detritus that accumulates in adult life, and Kate Carraway has some advice on how to manage yours.
Kate Carraway
2.15.19
SEX

How to Have a One Night Stand Without Being an Asshole

According to experts.
Anna Goldfarb
1.31.19
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Sometimes It Sucks to Be Who We Are: Advice from So Sad Today

If you don't think you're going to be comfortable with a polyamorous relationship, you probably won't.
So Sad Today
1.25.19
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