Doing Sex Work Online Isn't Cheap
People who did stripping, escorting, or dominatrix work before the pandemic are finding that making money now means spending it on equipment like lighting, phones with good cameras, lingerie, and toys.
What It’s Like to Break Up With a Sex Work Client You Fell For
"I was happy to pursue a flirty friendship with someone who I thought could be much more to me than just someone who paid for nudes."
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Horror Movies Make Me Less Afraid of the World
When my anxieties creep in, intentionally choosing to be scared grounds me.
Sex Tourism Isn't Just for Straight White Guys Anymore
People vacationing specifically to bone are younger and queerer than ever before—and they're changing what it means to ethically travel while horny.
How Serial Killer Aileen Wuornos Became a Cult Hero
To her fans, Wuornos's story offers a powerful example of a survivor who defies the respectability politics of victimhood.
What Happens to Polyamorous Relationships When One Partner Has Kids
When a member of a polycule gets pregnant, everyone faces new choices about how to adjust their relationships.
The Problem With 'Porn for Women'
Sites like Bellesa, ForHerTube and categories like Pornhub's 'popular with women' feature a soft porn experience, but generalizing too much about what women want puts their sexuality in a box.
Inside the Ornate World of El Chapo Nail Art
"Narco fashion is huge. It's such a part of our culture, it's so woven into our cultural fabric as Mexicans."
Dating as a Drag Queen Is Way Harder Than You Think
"I didn’t come out of the closet to date a boy who dresses like a girl" is a constant refrain.
Queer People Explain the Struggles of Strap-On Sex
While vibrators and other pleasure products have undergone impressive high-tech transformations in recent years, strap-ons still leave a lot to be desired.
This Artist Collects the Everyday Objects That Define Lesbian Life
Anyone who identifies as lesbian, butch, queer, non-binary, or trans was invited to send personal objects for the display.
Lesbian Women Explain the Art of the Casual Hookup
“There’s a sexist misconception that women are gay for emotional commitment and love. This denies women our sexuality and capacity for lust and depravity."