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  • Casual Sex Made Me Feel Manipulated, Until I Learned to Ask for What I Want

    People sent me a lot of hate mail after I wrote about not giving blowjobs, but it took me a lot of time and bad sexual experiences before I figured out what I want out of sex, and how to get it.

  • Why I Don't Give Blowjobs

    Am I being selfish? Probably. But I believe I earned that selfishness after many years of having sexual encounters with men who rarely bothered to reciprocate.

  • Do Fat Girls Have More Risky Sex?

    A number of studies have suggested that fat teenage girls are less likely to have relationships and more likely to engage in dangerous sexual behaviors. How true are those statistics?

  • I Had a Sex Slave, and It Was Awesome

    He ran my errands, massaged me on command, and requested to sleep on the floor. It was my first time being in a romantic partnership where I truly felt like I could be myself.

  • Online Dating Made Me Realize I'm a Shallow Person

    Did my obsession with the tastes of my online suitors hurt my changes of finding love?

  • My Abysmal Failure to Have Sex On a Cruise Ship

    I had high hopes for a high-seas adventure that would involve boning, but the ship turned out to be inhabited mostly by elderly people and an unfortunately-named band.