Dating

Dating

Presenting as Non-Binary Changed My Dating Life Completely

Staying true to my femme gender non-conforming identity has definitely made relationships more complicated.
Travis Alabanza
4 days ago
sex work

I Did Sex Work to Make Money—and Find Real Intimacy With Men

One in eight trans women have done sex work as a source of income; one in five, for food or shelter. Some of us have looked for real human connection there, too.
Sessi Kuwabara Blanchard
5.9.19
uk

These Women Are Doing 'No Man 2019' And —Surprise!— It's Going Great

These women say they're using their year-long break from men to build a stronger relationship with themselves.
Maighna Nanu
4.26.19
Common Misconceptions, Answered

A Poly Person Answers All Your Burning Questions About Polyamory

Since polyamory is more about communication than anything else, let's see if we can talk through some myths about jealousy, raising families, and, duh, sex.
Dominique Sisley
4.17.19
Memes

We Spoke to the Meme Goddess Behind @Tinyhat_skatelife

"I really enjoy making the memes that make fun of the girls who date skaters because I'm making fun of myself."
Niloufar Haidari
4.8.19
love

We Asked People What They Remember About Their First Time Falling in Love

"We broke up when she was about to graduate high school. She was going to get married to someone else."
Mustika Hapsoro
4.3.19
anxiety

How Bad Is It to Take a Quick-Fix Anxiety Pill?

When online health company Hers suggested taking their anxiety pill for a first date, Instagram got mad. But just how bad is it to take one?
Casey Vassallo
3.28.19
Sex

Grindr Users Talk Highs and Lows After Ten Years of the App

We asked a few men how the much loved and loathed app has changed gay life for better and worse.
Louis Staples
3.25.19
Culture

An Open Letter to My Nemesis, Pete Davidson: Stop Stealing My Girlfriends

I’m gay, which means two things: One, I hold grudges. Two, I don’t care about some weird dude’s dating life. But here’s what I do care about, a lot: international pop stars and actresses over 40.
Jill Gutowitz
3.13.19
Broadly

My First One Night Stand Was So Bad, I Almost Gave Up On Casual Sex

Just because casual sex isn't great the first time, it doesn't mean you should stop trying, says sex YouTuber Florence Barkway.
Florence Barkway
3.7.19
Dating

Why Dating Rich People When You're Broke Can Be So Awful

It’s easy to think of hooking up with someone well-off as a form of redistributive justice, but you need to be honest about where the power lies.
Alex Moore
3.1.19
My First Time

I Cheated on My Boyfriend and Got Pregnant—and the Guilt Almost Destroyed Me

After I cheated on my boyfriend with a classmate, I found out I was pregnant—and wasn't sure whose it was. But even worse than the unwanted pregnancy, I was surprised to learn, was the guilt.
Charlie Stone
2.28.19
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