What You Need to Know About Consent and Disability
The people entrusted to care for me need to understand and respect my boundaries.
A Government Database for People Who Pay for Sex Is a Terrible, Dangerous Idea
A set of bills pass this month in Florida that, if they become law, will build a “Soliciting for Prostitution Public Database."
A Sex Workers Union Is Organizing Against Instagram Discrimination
The Adult Performers Actors Guild is standing up for sex workers who are tired of being banned from Instagram with no explanation.
'Pro Hoe' Is My New Definition of Sexual Freedom
Kink was integral to developing my sexual identity free of the stereotyping of Black women I experienced.
This Quantum Physicist Used Machine Learning to Map Reddit’s Sexual Fetishes
More than one thousand subreddits, plotted in an interactive tree.
An Erotic Dinner Party Gave Me a Whole New Perspective on Sex
After a series of heartbreaking losses, including much of my hearing, I felt totally disconnected from my body. Then I went out to eat.
A Dominatrix Reviews ‘Bonding,’ Netflix’s Show About a Dominatrix
Mistress Blunt, a real-life dominatrix for the last nine years, gives her review of Bonding, a new Netflix series about being a domme.
Dominatrixes Tell Us What Makes a Good Sub
Ease in slowly, ask questions, and don’t mistake your domme for a therapist.
This YouTuber Has Designed a DIY ‘Full Automatic Virtual Sex System’
With a couple of VR headsets, controllers, and this device, two users can simulate sex.
Common Misconceptions, Answered
A Poly Person Answers All Your Burning Questions About Polyamory
Since polyamory is more about communication than anything else, let's see if we can talk through some myths about jealousy, raising families, and, duh, sex.
I Bought a Bunch of Gas Station Boner Pills and Only Made It Through One
I didn't die, but I won't be trying the rest.
I Tried Rope Bondage as a Coping Mechanism for My Anxiety
It felt like yoga—a steady, reliable movement from discomfort to comfort and I was in control of the pace.